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  • Visitation

    Memorial Visitation:

    Saturday, March 19, 2022

    12:00 pm to 2:00 pm

    Meridith Funeral Home, Highland, IL.

  • Service

    Memorial Service:

    Saturday, March 19, 2022

    2:00 pm

    Meridith Funeral Home, Highland, IL.

  • Full Obituary

    Traycen Swinney, 14, of rural Highland, IL, passed away Tuesday, March 15, 2022, at his home.

    Traycen was born December 17, 2007, to Timothy Swinney and Katrena Chisum, in Decatur, TX.  He was an 8th grader at Triad Middle School.

    Traycen loved to fish, play football, and wrestle, where he had the most pins.  He also enjoyed playing video games and listening to music.  Traycen had a big heart, always willing to help anyone he could.  He loved his cousins, friends, and family, and being a big brother meant the world to him.

    He is preceded in death by his maternal grandfather, Ronnie Chisum.

    Traycen is survived by his father, TJ (significant other, Julianna Banal) Swinney, rural Highland, IL; mother, Katrena Chisum, Midland, TX; siblings, Charli Swinney, Herrin, IL and Kiley Chisum, Midland, TX; grandparents, Tim & Cindy Swinney, Union, MO; uncles, Jon (Jessica) Gresham, James Gresham, Billy (Jen) Kruel, Bryan Walters; and many cousins.

    Memorials may be made to the Donor’s choice.

    Memorial Visitation:  Saturday, March 19, 2022, from 12:00 pm to 2:00 pm, Meridith Funeral Home, Highland, IL.

    Memorial Service:  Saturday, March 19, 2022, 2:00 pm, Meridith Funeral Home, Highland, IL.

    Meridith Funeral Home, Highland, IL

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25 Condolences
 
  1. Georgia Wilkins / March 17, 2022 at 4:16 pm

    I am the Cashier at Triad Middle School.I am so saddened to hear of the loss of Traycen.He was always so polite.your family will be in my prayers.

  2. Dawn DeNap / March 17, 2022 at 4:49 pm

    I had Traycen in my English class this semester. He was always smiling. I loved passing him in the hall during my plan period and the little jokes we would say like, “Fancy meeting you here.” I am truly saddened by the loss of Traycen. Your family continue to be in my prayers.

  3. Jaclyn Duhachek / March 17, 2022 at 4:50 pm

    We are heartbroken. We have known Traycen for a few years now as the wife of TMS wrestling coach . He was the most special boy. I would talk to him a lot during duals and he was always the sweetest to me. I loved that boy like a son and CJ loved him as a brother. We are going to miss him more than he would ever known. Sending our deepest condolences to his family.
    Chamous, Jaclyn & CJ Duhachek

  4. Michelle Stilwell / March 17, 2022 at 5:26 pm

    I am the clerical aide/lunch monitor at TMS, I’m just at a loss for words. Traycen was always nice and respectful. He had a sweet smile and the kindest eyes. I will truly miss seeing him. My heartfelt thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends.

  5. Brenda Biggs / March 17, 2022 at 5:40 pm

    T. J. and Katrina. Lordy, Lordy! I just want to hold all y’all. There really are no words that will bring you comfort right now. Time and good memories will be your only saviors, I’m afraid. People say “get over it”, but, you never do. You will, however, grow accustom to it all. God bless you and keep you and shine his love light on you today and always for the rest of your days…. 🙏🙏🙏

  6. Paula Civili / March 17, 2022 at 6:28 pm

    Traycen was always a sweet kid and a joy to be around. It was amazing to see how much he loved hanging out with his Dad and singing karaoke. My heart goes out to TJ and Katrina, his sisters and the rest of his family, you are all in my prayers.

  7. Kaylee Bowman / March 17, 2022 at 9:52 pm

    Traycen and I had been friends for almost 6 years. He was always so kind and loving to me. He would always make me smile even when I was at my lowest. Traycen was my other half. I’m so sorry for his family and friends and I hope no one forgets the light that he brought to everyone’s life. Thank you to his parents for raising such a bright and loving boy.

  8. Marcus Mitchell / March 17, 2022 at 10:16 pm

    Traycen was my friend. I cried for hours after I heard. Traycen had troubles that he talked with me about. He cared, he was very sympathetic when it came to others. I hope he isn’t troubled anymore and is happier. He will always be in my heart and memory.

  9. Karen / March 17, 2022 at 10:18 pm

    I am so very sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathies to your family.

  10. Cameron Layton / March 18, 2022 at 11:06 am

    I wish I talked to him more. I hope he’s happier now. Rest in peace, Traycen.

  11. Hadyn Jackson / March 18, 2022 at 5:14 pm

    He rode the bus with me, and he was one of the sweetest kids. We were friends, and he was always willing to help me out or anything I needed. I knew he wasn’t ok, but as a 15 year old kid, it’s harder than you would think to help someone out with their mental problems. I hope he is happier now than he was here. See you later, swimmy.

  12. Brandi / March 18, 2022 at 7:38 pm

    I did not know Traycen, but having kids of my own around this age it hits hard. My thoughts and prayers go out to his friends and family during this difficult time. I cannot imagine how hard this is, but know he will be missed and his memories will live on forever. May you RIP Traycen!

  13. Mrs. H / March 19, 2022 at 11:45 am

    Tray was such an awesome kid. He would never let there be a dull or quiet moment in class. He would always participate, have a comment, or volunteer to help. His smile/laugh was contagious and lit up the room. Also, I loved our conversations; he always had a story or joke to tell me. His beautiful soul will truly be missed. <3 His family, friends, and everyone in his life are in my prayers.

  14. Marydel Galgano / March 19, 2022 at 4:17 pm

    I haven’t known Traycen for long but he was a really great friend to me. He had sat with me all night when I was upset. We cried together. We would talk for hours and play video games. We would call each other besties and just laugh together. It really hurts to know he’s gone. I loved him like a best friend. Fly high tray. I love you bestie.

  15. Aydin jacobs / March 19, 2022 at 5:21 pm

    I was a friend of traycens from bowie we stayed in contact with him after he moved I miss him allot he was a bright caring person I miss him so much and I hope that he can rest in peace im sending prayers to his family he brightened my life im going to miss him so much and i hope we can all move forward in heal in the future R.I.P to my friend

  16. Samir / March 19, 2022 at 5:27 pm

    Traycen and I have been friends for about six years and he was one of my closest friends and was like a brother to me and Aydin Jacobs and he never failed to make us laugh nor smile he was always my light in our friendship and was always their for me I wish I could attend but I live to far away but I’m sending love and prayers your way and I hope your wounds can heal he left a mark on my life that I will carry on forever and he will be remembered and missed

  17. Kaylee / March 19, 2022 at 5:56 pm

    Traycen and I had been friends for almost 6 years. He was always so kind and loving to me. He would always make me smile even when I was at my lowest. Traycen was my other half. I’m so sorry for his family and friends and I hope no one forgets the light that he brought to everyone’s life. Thank you to his parents for raising such a bright and loving boy.

  18. Taryn valentin / March 22, 2022 at 7:55 pm

    dear tray i know that you where the best thing that every happened to me I will forever think about you’re laugh ur smile everything we always played Fortnite together he was the most pure soul ever and no one else is like you. I loved ur personality and you’re smile and you’re dimples I miss it. It’s so devastating what happened and I could never forget you I know we didn’t talk at the end and I’m so sorry for that and I regret not sending you a text the night it happened and checking up on you where the most kindhearted boy that i’ve ever met you didn’t care what someone looked like or how the way the spoke you loved them for who they where and we’ve had the greatest laughs together and you always shared how you where gonna play football the next season and how excited you where me and marydel cherished you’re soul and I’m sorry it had to end that way you always talked about you’re friends and how much you’ve missed them and how you enjoyed you’re spring break and how excited you where to go back and see you’re teachers and the staff members everyone loved you and you where the best partner that I’ve ever had you loved me for me not what I looked like just my personality you made everyone around you very comfortable and you made us open up with our feelings and asking how our day was and what was on our mind you made hours feel like seconds time passed by so fast because taking to you felt like we where talking for years and we would be on the phone for 10+ hours and it felt like 10 minutes we slept on the phone together shared our secrets and things we regretted doing and things that where the highlight on our life I can go on and on how great and amazing you where I just wanna send my condolences to the family and friends…….. love you tray – Taryn Valentin🕊

  19. Richard Beck / March 24, 2022 at 8:29 am

    I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Traycen. He was a nice kid. He was very respectful and polite. My condolences to your family.

  20. Saturday Chisum / May 23, 2022 at 6:31 pm

    I’m Traycen’s older brother, previously known as his older sister, Kiley. We used to rough house and play video games together while we were growing up. A little while after our parents breakup, he decided to go back living with his dad. He would come to visit me and mom a couple of times. The last time I saw him in person was for Christmas break when we visited New Mexico. He had talked about being depressed and having guilt from an event he had went through during a visit, and I tried to help him out by relating to his experiences and letting him talk about he was feeling. The last time I ever got to talk to him was when he called to talk about the fight he had in school. He even sent a video showing off how he beat up the kid. My moms side of the family had our own little service on Saturday, where we watched a video of photos of him growing, and then went to a park and set out balloons to fly across the sky. I really miss my little brother. I just hope that his eternal rest is peaceful.

    RIP- little bro.

  21. Charli Lucas / July 28, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    Traycen and I used to be really close. he always listened to me when I needed someone to talk to. I had talked to him just a few days before his passing. I told him I was there for him, and he told me he was okay. I wish I could’ve done more to help, but I know that he is at peace now. Traycen had the kindest smile and the most beautiful eyes. Rest In Peace traycen.

  22. Tyler Thompson / August 4, 2022 at 12:33 am

    Thinking about you a little extra today. We were never really that close but you were always so kind and respectful. I wish I could’ve done more to help, but he is in a better place now. R.I.P.

  23. Gavin Woolverton / August 26, 2022 at 7:57 pm

    I think about you everyday but for some reason today hurt a little more. We weren’t that close but I know that Traycen was a light to everyone on the wrestling team. He was a great teammate and he made those long wrestling practices better. He was always so kind to me and everyone else on the team. I wish I could of helped somehow. RIP Traycen.

  24. Victoria Wells / November 9, 2022 at 10:42 am

    Tray was a very good friend to me and we were on the same wrestling team and he was amazing at it. he was my first ever friend and he opened his arms up to me and I’m glad he did. if it wasn’t for Tray I wouldn’t be who I am today. I think about him everyday left wondering what he’s up to. I loved Traycen with all my heart as a friend and more and I still do, I always will. It breaks me to even think about all of this. His voice I still remember his hugs everything about him is a memory and I will never forget him he will always be remembered. I know he is watching over all of us.

    Rest in piece

    Traycen.J.Swinney.

  25. Avaree canon / November 21, 2023 at 12:39 am

    Traycen is my cousin from my mom sides when his parents split I was told my aunt and 2 cousin traycen and kiley they moved out but stay lived in the same town then traycen went with his dad we went to New Mexico together for new years and had so many fun moments the day I was told about it I cried so bad I was only 8 in third grade and now I think about him every day

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