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  • Visitation

    Tuesday, May 21, 2024

    9:00 AM to 11:00 AM

    Holy Cross Lutheran Church, Collinsville, IL

  • Service

    Tuesday, May 21, 2024

    11:00 AM

    Holy Cross Lutheran Church, Collinsville, IL

  • Full Obituary

    Shirley J. Haner, 89, of Collinsville, IL, passed away on Tuesday, May 14, 2024, at La Bella Nursing Home in Edwardsville, IL.

    She was born on December 26, 1934, in Cape Girardeau, MO, to Leon and Hulda (nee Heider) Garner. On March 26, 1954, she married the love of her life, William “Bill” John Haner in St. Louis, MO.

    Shirley loved to cook, while her husband worked his magic on the barbecue grill, Shirley’s cooking stole the show, adding a dash of joy and flavor in her mostaccioli to every family gathering. The best part was seeing the smiles on everyone’s faces as they enjoyed her creations. Aside from her knack in the kitchen, Shirley was a talented and devoted hairdresser, pouring her heart and soul into her work with flair and finesse. Operating a thriving studio from her home for the better part of her life, Shirley didn't just give her clients stylish haircuts; she also filled their hearts with warmth through her genuine care and contagious laughter.

    In her leisure time, Shirley found solace in the simple pleasures of life. Whether she was perusing her favorite shops for treasures, spending quality time with her cherished family, or cuddling up with her beloved poodles, Shirley's zest for life was evident in every moment she savored. But perhaps Shirley's most enduring legacy lies in her boundless kindness and selflessness. She possessed a heart of gold and would go to great lengths to help those in need, embodying compassion and generosity in all she did. She was a treasured wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and friend, and will be dearly missed by all who knew her.

    She was preceded in death by her loving husband of 56 years, William “Bill” J. Haner; parents, Leon and Hulda Garner; siblings, Robert (Bernice) Garner, Judy (John) Fleeman, Lenora (Lou) Getz, Caroline (Calvin) Pitts, Geraldine “Gerry” (Larry) Pugh.

    Shirley is survived by her son, William “Bill” S. (Lisa Fuehner) Haner; grandchildren, Mackenzie J. Haner, Lilly Fuehner, Annie Stanek; siblings, William “Andy” (Karen) Garner, Arlene, (Paul) Schoate; nieces, nephews, and many loving friends.

    Memorials may be made to the Haner Family.

    Visitation: Tuesday, May 21, 2024, from 9:00 AM to 11:00 AM, at Holy Cross Lutheran Church, Collinsville, IL.

    Service: Tuesday, May 21, 2024, 11:00 AM, Holy Cross Lutheran Church, Collinsville, IL.

    Clergy. Rev. Kyle Wright II

    Interment: Ss. Peter & Paul Catholic Cemetery, Collinsville, IL.

    Kassly-Meridith Funeral Home, Collinsville, IL.

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2 Condolences
 
  1. Paul lee / May 16, 2024 at 6:10 pm

    I will never forget all of the summers spent with you, all the weekends at the clubhouse, riding my bike up and down your hilly streets. Love you Aunt Shirley – say hello to Uncle Bill, Grandma and Grandpa and aunts and uncles.

  2. Arlene Choate / May 17, 2024 at 2:37 pm

    My beloved Sister I will never forget the time when I was 5yrs old and you and Sister Leonora had to pick me up at the Police Station because I decided to run away, Shirley you were so mad at me “do you remember”??Then you started laughing and Leonora too because I was sitting on top of the police counter eating candy and not understanding why you and Sis was mad at me, but that is only one of millions of memories you gave me growing up, cutting and fixing my hair, and the time that unknowing to me you decided to cut Tammy’s long hair and I was upset but then she looked even cuter and I just could not be mad at you, all the barbecue’s at Mom and Dad’s with funny stories, and we loved going shopping so much more happiness you brought me I love you my Precious Sister Shirley from someone who loved you Dearly, Arlene

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