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  • Visitation

    Saturday, August 31, 2024

    2:00 to 6:00 pm

    and Sunday, September 1, 2024

    12:00 to 2:00 pm

    Meridith Funeral Home, Pocahontas, IL.

  • Service

    Sunday, September 1, 2024

    2:00 pm

    Meridith Funeral Home, Pocahontas, IL

  • Full Obituary

    Robert A. Meadows, Jr., 46, Pocahontas, IL, died Tuesday, August 27, 2024, at St. Elizabeth Hospital, O’Fallon, IL.

    He was born September 10, 1977, to Robert “Alvin” and Linda (Nee Smith) Meadows, Sr., in Belleville, IL. On July 3, 2002 he married Tabitha Molter in Greenville, IL.

    Robert was a kind, selfless man. A huge family man, always caring for his family. He was proud of his children and grandchildren. He was a hardworking man, he loved dirt track racing and owned race cars. Robert loved cars, he knew all about them, how to fix them, how to drive them, he would help anyone work on their car anytime he could. He loved all of his dogs and he loved to find the hole-in-the-wall restaurants to share a meal with his family.

    He was preceded in death by his mathernal grandparents, AC and Lillie Smith; paternal grandparents, Charles and Robbie Blackwell; mother-in-law, Drema K. Lowe.

    Robert is survived by his wife, Tabitha Meadows, Pocahontas, IL; children, Jordan (fiancé, Pyper Mitchell) Meadows, Pocahontas, IL, Brennan (fiancé, Jessica Holcomb) Meadows, Pocahontas, IL; parents, Alvin and Linda Meadows, Pocahontas, IL; sister, Amanda (Duane) Gaffner, Greenville, IL; grandchildren, Braxtan and Bennett; nephews, Ashton (significant other, Timery Moore) Gaffner, Gunner Gaffner; in-laws, Charles Lowe, Christopher Green, Alex Molter; nieces, Melissa Green, Navaranna Green, Grace Green, Elizabeth Green.

    Memorials may be made to the family.

    Visitation: Saturday, August 31, 2024, from 2:00 to 6:00 pm and Sunday, September 1, 2024, from 12:00 to 2:00 pm at Meridith Funeral Home, Pocahontas, IL.

    Funeral: Sunday, September 1, 2024 at 2:00 pm at Meridith Funeral Home, Pocahontas, IL.

    Clergy: Ward Sussenbach, Pastor, Mt. Gilead Cumberland Presbyterian Church.

    Interment: Robinson Cemetery.

    Meridith Funeral Home, Pocahontas, IL.

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11 Condolences
 
  1. James and Rhonda Meadows / August 28, 2024 at 3:52 pm

    Jay and I are truly sorry for your loss We send our prayers to the boys and you and to Linda and Alvin I pray that God will comfort all of you in your loss Jay said he loves you all and we will keep you in our prayers 🙏🙏❣️

  2. Pyper Mitchell / August 28, 2024 at 5:54 pm

    I have been blessed to know Robert for about 8 years now. Ever since I met him and became apart of this family he has always been sure to never leave me out. He always put everyone else first. I thank him for everything that he has done for me. Throughout the years I’ve got to see him be an amazing dad to his sons and a great papa. He loved his boys more than anything and everyone knew it. I know that he will continue to be a great papa even from heaven for the ones on earth and the ones yet to come. I’m sorry that your time was so short and I will miss you so much. I promise to take care of Jordan for you.

    With love, Pyper, (the diaper wiper), your daughter in law.

  3. Wes Robbins / August 28, 2024 at 8:05 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss! Prayers for all the family!!

  4. Lelia Hodgins / August 28, 2024 at 9:45 pm

    Sending love and prayers Jessica to your children Braxtan and Bennett and your fiance Brennan during this sad time. Your cousin Lelia

  5. Jessica Holcomb / August 28, 2024 at 11:31 pm

    Robert and Tabitha welcomed we with arms wide open 8 years ago. Robert was so gracious to give me his sons’ heart to hold forever. And I was even more blessed when I learned we would be giving him a grandson. From the moment Braxtan was born, he had his papa wrapped around his finger. And Bennett also! Robert bought my kids every stinking car in the world (the totes they are in are literally cracking). Robert taught my babies so much and he would tell you he loved them more than me or their father. Robert was a hardworking, intelligent, family man. I was bless to be your daughter-in-law. And we are going to miss you soooooo much!!

    Love you always, Ugly.
    Jess

  6. Mary Green / August 28, 2024 at 11:36 pm

    So sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

    Mary and Dennis Green

  7. Melissa Riggins / August 28, 2024 at 11:37 pm

    I have known Robert Tab and the boys for a very long time .Robert was always funny 😆 and joking around when I saw him and the boys grew up with my son Scott , I’m so very sorry for your loss and everything Robert and you all have went through and are going through! Most of all Tab Jordan Brennan Jess piper may god watch over you all and give you peace to get through the toughest time of your life all of you are strong amazing people who have each other and those boys who are growing so fast!!! Love the Riggins Family ❤️ love you sister❤️

  8. The Claytons / August 29, 2024 at 8:18 am

    Our family sends wishes of peace for yours.

  9. Alexander Molter / August 29, 2024 at 8:30 am

    The loss of Robert has left an irreplaceable gap in our lives. To me, he was not just a brother-in-law; he was a brother, a trusted friend, and someone whose presence brought joy and comfort.
    Robert’s passion for mechanics was not just about cars; it was about creation, innovation, and bringing his visions to life. His workshop was where he expressed his artistry, transforming ordinary cars into masterpieces of speed and design. Each project was a labor of love, showcasing his dedication and skill.
    Above all, Robert’s heart belonged to his family. His boys, Jordan and Brennan, were his greatest achievements, and he nurtured them with lessons of life, love, and the value of hard work. With Tabitha, he shared a partnership that was as finely tuned as any engine he ever worked on, built on mutual respect, deep love, and shared passions.(even when they got on each other’s nerves he loved deeply)
    Robert’s spirit and heart was one of pure gold. His ability to mend, whether it was machinery or moments, was unparalleled. His laughter might not have echoed loudly, but his warmth was felt by all who knew him.
    Rest in peace, Robert. Your life’s work, your love, and your memory will continue to inspire. Your life was a testament to dedication, love, and the impact one person can have.

  10. Timery / August 29, 2024 at 6:56 pm

    I met Robert and Tabby about 7 years ago and they let me in the family with open arms. I’ve never really had family gatherings, dinners and this close of a relationship with family till I met Ashton. Robert was always about family and family meant the world to him. He was always picking on me, calling me “ little shit”.. and bumping into me every once in while, just to mess with me. He was such an amazing uncle to Ashton, helping him with any of his needs and being the reason he loves race cars. I miss you Robert, I miss hearing you say “Put your seatbelt on” before leaving any family event or “Drive safe”. I love you Robert.
    – Your niece Timery “little shit”

  11. Matthew Mitchell / September 1, 2024 at 9:08 am

    I didn’t really get a chance to know you. Like so many, I thought we would have time. You were always on the go; at work or working on the race cars. I can tell you had love and adoration for your family. A man that takes care of his family is truly someone special. I hope you know that I cannot thank you enough for all that you’ve done for Pyper. You provided for her, fed her, clothed her, and much more, just made sure she did not go without and spoiled her like she was one of your own kids. So for that, thank you! I know you will be missed. I know that your family loves you just as much as you love them. I will be there for Jordan like you were for Pyper. I will always be available for Jordan like you were for Pyper. Jordan is a fine young man and he sure makes my daughter happy. Robert, you’ve done an incredible job raising Jordan and you can rest easy knowing he will do great things and continue to make you proud.

    To the family, I am so sorry for your loss. God knows best and will be a comforter in this time of mourning. I pray that you all will find closure and peace. May God bless you and keep you.

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