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  • Visitation

    Friday, February 9, 2024

    10:00 AM to 1:00 PM

    Kassly-Meridith Funeral Home, Collinsville, IL

  • Service

    Friday, February 9, 2024

    1:00 PM

    Kassly-Meridith Funeral Home, Collinsville, IL

  • Full Obituary

    Raymond “Ray” E. Simmons, 61, of Granite City, IL, passed away on February 2, 2024, at his home in Granite City, IL.

    He was born April 21, 1962, in East St. Louis, IL, to David and Sharon (nee Erb) Simmons.

    Ray's life was marked by his unwavering generosity and his ability to forge connections with anyone he encountered. His infectious smile illuminated every room, and his genuine demeanor meant he never met a stranger—only new friends waiting to be made. Ray's capacity for empathy knew no bounds. He was a steadfast listener, always ready to lend an ear and offer solace to those in need.

    Among Ray's greatest joys were his beloved birds, particularly his cherished Green-Winged Macaw, Buddy, Mr. Pickle, and Sweet Pea. An avid collector of Fiestaware, finding joy in the kaleidoscope of colors and intricate patterns adorning his beloved pieces.

    Ray's bond with his sister, Sharon, was unbreakable. She was not only his sibling but also his closest confidant and dearest friend. In addition to his sister, Ray cherished the companionship of his dear friends Rosee and Kirk. They shared many cherished memories, from cozy pajama parties to outings to restaurants donning whimsical onesies. These moments of laughter and camaraderie filled Ray's heart with joy and enriched his life with treasured memories.

    Though Ray may have departed from this world, his spirit of kindness, his infectious smile, and his boundless love will continue to live on in the hearts of all who were touched by his presence. He was a treasured son, brother, uncle, and friend, and will be dearly missed by all who knew him.

    He was preceded in death by his parents, David and Sharon Simmons.

    Ray is survived by his siblings, Sharon “Sherry” (Rachael Gardner Purdy) Simmons Wilson, William “Gene” Eugene Simmons; niece, Tanya Osterman; great-nephew, Chase Brewer; extended family, ones you choose, Ed “Rosee” Abmeyer, Kirk Pace; and many loving friends.

    Memorials may be made to PAWS program at Vivent Health

    Visitation: Friday, February 9, 2024, from 10:00 AM to 1:00 PM, at Kassly-Meridith Funeral Home, Collinsville, IL.

    Memorial Service: Friday, February 9, 2024, 1:00 PM, at Kassly-Meridith Funeral Home, Collinsville, IL.

    Officiating: Pastor Rachael Gardner Purdy

    Interment: Lakeview Memorial Gardens, Fairview Heights, IL.

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3 Condolences
 
  1. Kathy Boyd / February 6, 2024 at 9:33 pm

    You will be forever a friend of this family you will be missed greatly thank you for being our friend the Boyd family

  2. Deborah / February 6, 2024 at 10:52 pm

    Ray I don’t even know where to start never in a million years what I have thought that you would have left I love you it was all my heart we have many discussions over the years and one in particular was probably 10 years ago you said to me you know that if I was straight that you and I would be together I’ve never forgotten that and never will I can still see us sitting in the front of Walmart taking a break from Drew and inventory and he said that to me and I said well that means a lot to me right Raymond and I are birthdays were two days apart and we thought like two sisters but if I ever needed anything I just went to him and he said do not worry about it I will take care of it I love you with all my heart Ray you mean the world to me this is something that I can’t seem to get past rest and peace dear friend I will love you for eternity

  3. Robert Mack and Usun Mack / February 7, 2024 at 10:57 am

    We wish to extend our sincere condolences to Rays family. He will be missed by many people. He was a kind and loving person. We will keep him in our prayers and remember him always.

    Bob and Usun Mack

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