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  • Visitation

    Tuesday, October 2, 2018 from 5 to 7 PM at the Ingram-Meridith Funeral Home, Albion, IL

  • Service

    Celebration of a Life Well-Lived on Wednesday, October 3, 2018 at 10:30AM at the Ingram-Meridith Funeral Home in Albion, IL with burial to follow at Graceland Cemetery, Albion.

  • Full Obituary

    Born in a little 4 room house on the south side of Moose Lake in Edwards County, Illinois on November 7, 1935, Paul Gordon Orr, the son of Donald E. and Huldah May Mills Orr was humbly born and lived inside that same home for most of his life.  He attended school at the nearby Montgomery one room school house, then Bone Gap School and finally Edwards County High School, where he played basketball and baseball. Baseball was his sport of choice and he continued in the game following in his father's footsteps; playing American Legion Ball and beyond against teams mostly in southeastern Indiana and the surrounding area. He was an avid hunter and fisherman and this important part of his life continued until his very last years. He was very familiar with skinning boards, coon hides, fox furs, deer antlers, turkey beards and spurs, rabbit, squirrel, quail, duck and pheasant and all the native fishes filling lakes ponds and rivers; especially his favorite bluegill. All were considered resources of the grand design of creation. Paul also had an artistic side and could draw anything. His oil paintings competed in local art shows and are displayed in relatives', friends' and neighbors' homes throughout the area. Working with wood and creating something from nothing was a challenge he relished; evident in the many turkey calls, gun and ammo boxes, and even a recurve bow; made with careful hands. Paul loved to sing and he could've sung with the best of them. Hymns, jingles, and even songs he made up in the moment. Lyrics that were descriptive, funny, and love- filled. A yodel or two was also on his song list. He sang at a neighbors’ funeral because as a young man, she asked him if he would, and he did; keeping his word and the promise he had made years before. A prolific poet and sentimental sap; you could find verses, at random, scribbled on scraps of paper everywhere he had been; lovingly signed and dated with that special artistic signature. Paul farmed and was a Shepherd; showing and shearing sheep around the region until in 1969 after attending the Illinois State Police Academy in Springfield, he became an Illinois State Trooper. His family relocated to New Berlin, IL and also lived in Loami, IL., thirdly living in Toledo, IL. for a year and lastly returning to that Moose Lake humble home and the life he valued most. Simple humility and a caring spirit made it easy to care for and help others; and enforcing the law he respected and honored was very important to him. He could be harsh, he could be tender wiping tears from his eyes as he read a poem or said a prayer in worship services or when leading fellow believers in a hymn; formerly at West Village Christian Church where he obeyed God's commands in his youth and became a Christian, or the Albion Church of Christ where he currently was a member. He could be angry or soft enough to make a baby smile and coo.  Bossy and stubborn; and most times it was his way or the highway, but with a heart that knew he was indebted to a Savior that had sacrificed and shed His blood for a sinner like him. He loved to have fun, to joke around, to laugh and most importantly to make others smile. He gave his very best to his community; putting his life on the line day in and day out for 22 years. Trooper Paul G. Orr received 22 commendations and special awards, but they weren't big news in the local media. He quietly and humbly accepted the recognitions and for the most part, not many even knew. He chose not to accept promotion as the red tape and political strings, he felt impeded him in doing the job he was called to do. He was most content though, in the woods and fields of his youth or in Pope County where he and "the crew" had been hunting since the early sixties. He was strong, creative, industrious, knowledgeable, caring, humble, safe, true, talented, loud and selfish sometimes unbearable but always authentic! On April 11, 1958 he married Margie Ann Doty and they enjoyed over 60 years together and she survives.  Also surviving are daughter Terri Lyn ( and husband Chuck) Hilgeman, son Timothy Paul (and wife Nicky) Orr,  sisters, Betty Orr Green (and husband Archie) and Nieta Orr Fewkes (and husband George), grandchildren:  Cole (Kara), Kyle (Stacey), Rachel (Tyson), Kate (Sam), Clare (Matt), Alex, Jenni and Lillie, and 8 great-grandchildren:  Kenley, Ava, Banks, Aubrey, Ariyanna, Matalynn, Sailor and Lyla, as well as many nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.  A daughter, Lori Ann devastatingly passed in 2008 after a hard fought battle with breast cancer at the young age of 47.  A baby sister, Harriet died in infancy and his parents Donald and Huldah May also passed in 1983 and 1987. Hearts are sad, but glad as well for we will all be together again in those many mansions prepared just for us by our Saviour and Lord.

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  1. Julie Luthe / September 30, 2018 at 7:27 am

    That’s a very nice obituary. I bet you wrote that Terri. I would say from things I’ve read that you wrote that you got that talent from your dad as well as many other talents you have. My love and prayers go out to you at this sad time in your life.

  2. Mary Beth Taylor / September 30, 2018 at 9:06 am

    I did not know your Dad but have gotten to know Terri through knowing Chuck as a child. His parents were friends of mine. I am so sorry for your loss. After reading his obituary, I can see he was a good man and a good father that many people loved. My condolences to the entire family & hugs to Terri & Chuck. Continue the stories that your family knows, that eases the pain of his loss. We’ve done that with my parents stories & it does help. Love, Mary Beth Johnston Taylor

  3. BRENDA JONES / September 30, 2018 at 10:55 am

    He was a very sweet man. He was roommates with dad at Oakveiw heights. I always took him and dad food. He always had a big smile on his face when I walked in the room, He knew I brought him something to eat. I will always remember him.

  4. Linda Saxe / September 30, 2018 at 4:43 pm

    Outstanding obituary. My condolences to all the family. Hugs Terri and Chuck.

  5. Lindell R. Doty / September 30, 2018 at 8:09 pm

    What a lovely obituary. I learned a lot more about him from it. My wife and I extend our deepest sympathies. I know he will be missed by all who knew him and especially his family. May God Bless all of you who knew him and will miss him. Lindell and Gloria Doty

  6. Niki Knowles / September 30, 2018 at 9:19 pm

    Being his nurse at Oakview he was the one who took care of me! Always putting a smile on my face and making me feel appreciated. His songs, jokes and contagious smile was enough to melt anyones heart. He always melted mine! I miss him dearly…but torn because I know he is at peace. I’m blessed to have had the time I got to meet him and spend with him. I will never forget that gentle giant❤

  7. Donna Hoskins Beyke and Nancy Hoskins / October 1, 2018 at 10:48 am

    Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. It is a difficult time, but also a very rewarding time…..a life well lived and his earthly journey is complete. God surely welcomed him home. Mother and I share our condolences to your entire family. We hope to be able to attend the visitation.

    God’s peace and blessings to your family.

  8. John E Griswold / October 1, 2018 at 11:19 am

    My condolences to all the family.

  9. Stan Diggs ( retired lieutenant) / October 1, 2018 at 12:12 pm

    Paul was my second FTO, ( field training officer) when I arrived in D-19 in 1986. I 22 years old and was fresh out of Chicago. He was the biggest Trooper, I’d seen in my life, but also had the biggest heart on the job. He was the only guy I knew that could write you a ticket and if you saw him later in a restaurant, you’d buy his dinner, because he left you feeling better about yourself, even though your pockets were a little lighter. He had a great sense of humour, always wanting to play jokes on you, and never missing a moment to belt out a soft song and grinning only like he could. He taught me that, although being a State Trooper could strike fear in some people, it was better to let them know how kind and caring we really were. Rest in peace old friend.

  10. Linda Boyd James / October 1, 2018 at 3:33 pm

    I knew Paul when he was a trooper at D-12A and I was a dispatcher at Effingham D-12. Would get to meet these guys when they came in for training. Paul was such a nice man and good trooper! My sincere condolences to his family and friends.

  11. Terry Zeisset / October 1, 2018 at 4:02 pm

    May God Bless and keep you by His side. It was great knowing you, Class #45, Oct. 1969, Ret. D# 11 ISP, Terry Zeisset

  12. Al Lindsey / October 1, 2018 at 6:34 pm

    What a beautiful depiction of Paul’s life. Can’t say I’ve ever read a more compelling one. Certainly Paul deserves such a beautiful tribute. As a classmate in a rather large cadet class, more than 80, I can tell you everyone knew and liked him. Who could dislike such a gentle giant? My condolences to Paul’s family and friends. Rest In Peace Paul.
    Al Lindsey.

  13. Terri Orr Hilgeman / October 1, 2018 at 7:17 pm

    Words cant begin to thank you all…for your kind and caring sentiments…Your special memories and loving comments have touched our hearts and we are truly blessed by each and every one of you…and the place you hold in our lives..May God bless and keep you all…xoxo

  14. Gary Locke / October 1, 2018 at 7:41 pm

    I worked with Paul in Dist.9 and thought the world of him. He was a professional and very good Trooper, even more he was a good person. I’m truly sorry that i didn’t maintain contact with Paul after he transferred.He left a lasting impression on those that he worked with and we old timers still think and talk about Paul when we get together to swap war stories. he will be missed by all who knew him.

  15. Lisa Hensley / October 3, 2018 at 7:11 pm

    I have no doubt Terri that u wrote this beautiful obituary! Ur heart is as big as ur dad’s and ur words are very powerful! I remember ur father most when we were Pope County hunting and he was teaching Marty and I turkey calls! I could listen to him do them all day!

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