By Jim Meridith
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    • Service

      Memorial Graveside Service:

      Saturday, January 11, 2025

      11:00 am

      Highland City Cemetery, Highland, IL

    • Full Obituary

      Donna M. DePew, 81, of Highland, IL, passed away on Monday, January 6, 2025, at Well Care Home of Highland.

      She was born on September 21, 1943, in St. Louis, MO, to Benjamin and Mary (nee Gregory) Rudolph.

      Donna grew up in Alton, IL, and moved to Highland in 1967. She worked as a CNA and ER Tech at St. Joseph Hospital in Highland for 20 plus years. Donna was a member of the Evangelical United Church of Christ in Highland, the Highland VFW Auxiliary, the Highland Jaycee’s, and a camping group called the Star Craft Club. She enjoyed reading, gardening, making floral arrangements, acrylic painting, and most of all, cooking. Donna loved to cook for everyone and entertained guests a lot when she was younger. She used to belong to a Bunco league and always had fun playing cards and games with her friends and family. A loving wife, mother, grandmother, great grandmother, aunt, and friend, Donna will be missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing her.

      She was preceded in death by her first husband, Robert Lopez; second husband, Ed Byars; third husband, Bobbie DePew; son, Greg Byars, in infancy; parents, Benjamin Rudolph and Mary Mitchell; sisters, Darleen Phillips and Diana Tremor; and aunt, Melva Meyer.

      Donna is survived by her children, Robert (Arlene) Lopez, Antioch, IL, Darla (Sean) Smilek, Highland, IL, and Mitzi (Gary) Zurliene, Greenville, IL; grandchildren, Robby (Chrissie) Lopez, Jeremy (Steph Pozos) Lopez, Dalton Smilek, Amber (Adam) Markus, Ashley (fiancé, Tony Heimsath) Zurliene, and Wendy (Brett) Gustin; great grandchildren, Bodhi Lopez, Draco Lopez, Sophie Markus, Sadie Markus, Owen Markus, Hazel Gustin, and Ella Gustin; brother, Donald Mitchell; multiple nieces, nephews, and cousins.

      Memorial donations may be made to Wounded Warrior Project, St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, or the Highland VFW Post 5964.

      Memorial Graveside Service: Saturday, January 11, 2025, at 11:00 am, at Highland City Cemetery, Highland, IL

      Clergy: Pastor Bill Kapp

      Meridith Funeral Home, Highland, IL

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    1. Bo & Maria Holimon / January 8, 2025 at 3:09 pm

      We were so sorry to hear about your mom’s passing. Our deepest and heartfelt sympathies are with you and your family during this hard time. Sending love and hugs. We hope you find comfort in the legacy of love she leaves behind and that her memory will forever be a blessing.

    2. Michelle Tompkins family / January 10, 2025 at 4:13 pm

      Oh my gosh…I am so sorry 😞 I just loved your mom. Too many memories to count!! Sending you all my deepest sympathy and love ❤️

    3. Erica Richter / January 11, 2025 at 6:56 pm

      Donna was a patient of mine. I took care of her 2-3 days a week for months. I will miss our chats, her wittiness, her hugs, talking about all the fabulous jewelry she wore daily and her smile when she walked into the clinic. To know, to be her friend and to be loved by Donna was an honor. I’m very sad to hear this news. But I’m also happy that she is in a better place. I will be eating some pie on behalf of her soon. I love you Donna!

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